Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Question 3....Divorcee.

Question:
i'm a 63 year old woman and i recently divorced my husband. i'm fairly attractive and in pretty good shape but i'm really nervous about going out and meeting men. all of my friends are married still. the last time i dated i was 22 years old. things are so different now. any suggestions on where to go to meet single men my age?
will i be expected to have sex on the first date?!

-miss "used-to-be-mrs."


Answer:
Oh…tell me about it sister. I was in your shoes just a short while ago. It's tough getting back out there and "dating"…especially when you have married friends.
My advice to you is to drag your girlfriends out to the bars with you…even if they are married. The more you're out and about, the more you'll be noticed….and approached! Go to the places you frequented when you were still tied. Chances are, you'll meet a more mature crowd at the bar in those places than trying to hit the latest "hot-spot" in your town. (Unless you're looking for a younger fling…then for god's sake…hit the clubs!)
Bottom line is, for all of us single "lethal" women…the only way of getting a date is to put ourselves out there. You've got to be seen, in order to be seen naked!

Which leads me to…sex on the first date…well…that's up to you, darlin'. There's nothing like the feel of a new man, I'll tell you that. I'm sure you've forgotten what it's like to be actually excited by someone new you're in bed with! If you want to get a taste for what the world is like 41 years after your last real date…then I say, GO FOR IT!

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--Lethal Lady

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